I was just thinking how much I wanted to write here again, and checked in on Figleaf’s blog and there’s a recent post about a new-ish blog about feminism and female sexual dysfunction, particularly pain disorders, and I was all excited about that. Then I saw I was blogrolled there! Not sure I’m blogrolled anywhere, and nothing will guilt-trip you into blogging again like seeing that…I have ideas for posts but let me just get this one up to remember how the hell to use WordPress again (for instance, I keep forgetting what my user name is…).
So! Since the last post…nothing happened with whoever I was writing about at the time (someone I lusted after, but who just wanted to be friends, mild disappointment, moved on). Something mostly cool happened with one guy, something that seemed cool but was also confusing and now seems not that cool happened with another guy, and at the risk of jinxing things, very cool things might be happening soon with yet another guy (all the others are out of the picture, so now you know I don’t have some exciting polyamorous life or anything) and that is why these issues are on my mind again. It’s too depressing to write about sex when I’m not having any (and if I didn’t clarify this elsewhere, any time I say “sex” I’m talking about all sexual activity, not the specific act that gives me trouble…). But now…