Where are the Chicago sex bloggers?

Are they out there? Are they keeping their blogging location secret? Would I be intimidated by them, the way I am by sex blogging in general, or at least the sort that seems to be all about how hot and active people’s sex lives are, making me feel dull and inadequate by comparison? Will there ever be sex blogger meetups in Chicago like ones New Yorkers and others have had? How does a woman find non-creepy people who want to talk openly about sex? How do we make the Midwest more sex-positive?